Dennis Patrick McDonald:
CLASS OF 1984
Steveston High SchoolClass of 1984
Richmond, BC
Hugh Boyd Junior High SchoolClass of 1982
Richmond, BC
Lord Byng Elementary SchoolClass of 1979
Richmond, BC
Dennis Patrick's Story
I am a survivor of childhood physical, sexual and emotional abuse. As a child I was beaten with a belt buckle, leather strap, closed fist or whatever else was handy. I was hit deliberately in the forehead with a cement brick causing me to get stitches. I still have a cigarette burn scars to the back of my hand and forearms. A drunken family member would put a gun to my head and threaten to kill me just for fun. I would often be woken up during the night with someone laying in my bed behind me pushing in. Sometimes I would wake up naked with no recollection of undressing during the night. A male babysitter forced me to touch & kiss his private parts. I found several photographs taken of me posing with my private parts exposed I tried to live and act as normal as possible and I never told a soul because I once feared for my life and thought by telling someone things would get worse. I couldn't trust anyone for fear that they would also take advantage of me so there was no one to turn to. I have Major Depressive Disorder & PTSD and I'm currently in a substance abuse/detox program and receiving counselling after another failed suicide at...Expand for more
tempt. I have been battling alcohol and drug addiction for a number of years. I have lost connection with everyone that I grew up with. I remember that I used to drink before school and a lot of times I didn't even bother showing up at all. In junior high I once passed out in a class because I was drunk and I panicked because the entire class was watching and I thought they knew it. If you do remember me it wasn't the real me that you knew. I have no ill will towards anyone other than the one's who damaged me the most, and they are all pretty much dead or really old now. Since it is no longer a secret I have to keep in the closet it doesn't matter to me who knows it now. I am also not the same age with most of the people that I went to school with. Instead of putting me in kindergarten my Mom put me right into grade one. I guess she figured having me away for a full day was better than half a day. They never asked to see my birth certificate, they just took her word for it. I did not achieve a High School diploma until 2001 when I attended night classes at London Sr. Secondary where I was able to complete the 3 credits I was missing.
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